tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335620202921826698.post5013007853160929520..comments2014-02-12T17:39:42.613-06:00Comments on Spousal Care Giving: Misplaced guilt....Paulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04588082074049937048noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335620202921826698.post-28408930423863990202011-03-06T09:56:10.384-06:002011-03-06T09:56:10.384-06:00Yes. Oh, yes. I struggle with misplaced guilt to...Yes. Oh, yes. I struggle with misplaced guilt too. He can make choices and if his choices make me feel badly I can't go that route, because he has autonomy. But mostly I struggle with the fact that I'm in better health than my DH and I feel guilty for that even though I have health issues too. And my health issues engender guilt - I have to be completely fit to be able to help him, so I feel badly that I might not in the future be 100%. That's a burden too.The Calico Quilterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01772374749065425388noreply@blogger.com